Dr. Yvonne LaMar, assistant professor of education at Wayland Baptist University, has written a book dealing with moral reasoning, specifically among women.
Titled "God Provides the Sacrifice: Women Discuss Making Their Hardest Decisions," the book features the stories of 11 African American women and how they dealt with the toughest decisions of life.
"In graduate school, I did research on several theories and interviewed women about the topics," LaMar explained. "One set of theories dealt with moral reasoning - how people determine right from wrong - so I asked them to pick one decision and had them elaborate on it."
Dr. LaMar said her subjects shared only their race as a common thread and were diverse in personality, profession and life experiences, and she felt the group was a good mix, saying "theres someone in there that everyone can identify with."
She explained that the women were not versed ahead on what she would be asking them about, just the general scope of the project. When the interviews began, she started by asking the women what was the hardest decision they ever had to make. The results, she said, were honest and genuine, many involving sacred memories and heart-tugging emotions.
"Some of the things were very hard to talk about, some almost nightmarish," she said. "But these women were all much stronger because of what they went through."
"I wanted to take the academic work Id done and make it more practical for people," she said, adding she hopes the book will help other women who are also facing tough decisions. "Even if people dont have this exact pattern, they do have one and need to recognize it."
Dr. LaMar said the title of her book follows a prevailing theme from her interviews with the women as well.
"Whatever it was these women went though, there seemed to be a continuous theme that they were going to lose something, either money, or face or someone," she explained. "But they all came to a point of realizing that in the decision-making process, you often have to let something go - thats the sacrifice. And they realized that God provided that sacrifice, and even gave it to them for that purpose."
She holds a bachelors degree from Temple University, a masters degree in education from the University of Pennsylvania, and a masters and doctorate in educational psychology from Cornell University. Dr. LaMar has been on the faculty at Wayland since the fall of 2003.